Dating can be a great way of meeting and getting to know a potential partner.
Online dating has made it possible to meet more new people than ever – and more easily too.
And while that’s allowed us to have more control over the types of people we meet, and to think in more detail about the sort of partner who might work for us, it has also come with a few challenges and pitfalls. (more…)
Social media has brought a whole new range of opportunities and insecurities to relationships.
On the ‘down side’, those who date and have grown up with social media face the likes of ‘ghosting’.
For those lucky enough to not have experienced it, ‘ghosting’ is when someone you’ve been seeing suddenly cuts off all contact, seemingly vanishing off the face of the earth without explanation.
Has the other person stopped replying because you just said something weird? Have they met someone new? Do they not actually like you?
It’s enough to make you feel paranoid. (more…)
You’ve decided to put an end to all the arguing, all the tension, all the indecision – and tell your partner: ‘It’s over.’
All you’ve got to do is actually do it!
It sounds straightforward enough. But it’s not always easy.
Maybe you’re worried about hurting your partner. Perhaps you know they don’t want to break up, and that doing so will leave them in a bad state. (more…)
Many of us will remember what it was like to listen to our parents arguing. The feelings of helplessness, panic and sadness. A desire to block it out or run away.
Yet it can be easy to forget this as a parent later in life. We can get so mixed up in arguments with our partner that we don’t see things from the perspective of our children – who may be going through something very similar to what we once felt.
It’s no secret that parental arguments can have a negative effect on children. The different ways in which this can occur, though, aren’t always as obvious. And it can be easy to fail to appreciate how long-lasting these effects can be – sometimes carrying on for years as children become adults themselves. (more…)
Arguments between children can be upsetting for a parent. You may worry about your relationship with your children – especially if the arguments have been going on regularly for a while. You may feel a responsibility to stop the arguing, or may be upset that the arguments are causing disharmony in your family.
While some arguing between children is common – and indeed, might be expected – what can make a difference is the regularity and intensity of arguments. If your children are constantly at odds, or arguments are becoming really aggressive, or even physical, this can create real problems. (more…)
We’re sometimes reluctant to talk about what it’s really like to bring a new baby into a family – apart from the acceptance that we’re likely to get a lot less sleep.
Expectations run high and anything that contradicts them can be difficult to process.
As a new parent, you’re letting go of one life and discovering another. This process can take time.
It’s a period of intense change for you, your partner, and your new baby. You learn together what that new ‘normal’ looks like but, meanwhile, it’s important not to judge yourself, nor your partner, if things feel uncomfortable. Be gentle with each other. (more…)
Most parents argue. But the way these disagreements affect children varies greatly, according to research commissioned by the BBC.
It’s not only the relationship between parent and child that affects children’s long-term development.
How parents get on with each other also plays a big role in a child’s wellbeing, with the potential to affect everything from mental health to academic success and future relationships. (more…)
Did you know that volunteering is good for your wellbeing?
- Volunteers live longer and are healthier
- Volunteering establishes strong relationships
- Volunteering is good for society
- Volunteering gives you a sense of purpose
Volunteering can give you the opportunity to:
- try something new
- gain experience
- develop skills
- improve your career prospects
- build confidence
- meet new people.
- help you achieve personal goals
You only need to give a few hours a month to make a real difference to your local community.
Giving your time is incredibly important to us – without our team of volunteers, we would be unable to run our fantastic services.
Our volunteers currently support us with reception cover, administrative tasks and a whole range of opportunities from painting to supporting us in our fundraising endeavours.
We will provide you with full training in order to support you in your volunteering role.
Please give Hayley, our Operations Manager a call on 01604 634400 to learn more about how you can support us.
When you’re on the receiving end of blame it can be exhausting, exasperating and painful.
It can make you feel tiny: like nothing you do is good enough or ever will be. It can break down your sense of trust in your partner and replace it with a growing sense of resentment and anger.
And, if it persists for a long time, constant blame in a relationship can be a symptom of emotional abuse.
Why do we blame each other? (more…)
‘Micro-cheating’ – said to be a new buzzword – is all about little things you might think aren’t that naughty, but could turn out to be.
Is there such a thing – ‘cheating but only a bit’?
Yes, says Dr Martin Graff, professor of psychology at the University of South Wales, who wrote about this modern dating dilemma in an article for a psychology journal. (more…)